He: tall, very intelligent, a inspiring doctor. Well-educated, he comes from a very traditional and wealthy family. He's 28, a gentleman, compared to a prince by many due to his attitude, open mind, will to help. A caring man and dream boy for many girls.
She: strong personality, a beautiful blond girl. Determined, she doesn't care about people's opinion. Out-spoken, mysterious, hard-working, she doesn't allow too many in her heart. His family loves her.
The story goes something like that:
She just graduated from university. The course: medicine, just like him. They met at university. He tutored her for while. The celebrations for her uni achievement was huge!!! I was actually invited but couldn't make it because it was in another state, where she lives now. This massive event also celebrated their engagement. 150 people made to the party, and they said the couple couldn't be happier. He is going to make her happy for the rest of her life. And she is going to do the same for him.
The wedding is going to be here, in the bride's home town. The church has already been paid for, and the wedding planners are going crazy!! The bride's mother is soooo excited and the groom's family can't wait to be at the sunshine state (here) for the party. The girls are already organizing the piss up for when she gets here. Everything is going great!!!
Both, now doctors, are studying hard to get into their specialisation. She wants to be a gynecologist. He wants to work in an ER.
Saturday, November 1, 2008, 5.30am, the fairy tails turns into a nightmare. He's working in an ambulance, coming back from rescuing a just born baby. It crashes against a truck holding 30 ton of corn. He is squashed under the wreckage. She gets the call and drives to the accident scene. Thankfully, for her own sake, she couldn't find what she was searching for; his body.
I'm so sad for her!!! I wish I could hold her tight. Everyone who loves and cares for her has been feeling her pain. The boy's family, poor them!!! He's the second son lost in a car accident. I wish I could take her anxiety, her anger, her lacking of understanding away from her mind. I wish I could give her some comfort. The last thing she said to him; "I don't like this shirt". Had she known, she would have been nicer, loving and caring. She would have said "I LOVE YOU!" She wouldn't had let him go. But how could she know? How can we lose someone in a blink of an eye? We gotta learn from this. Learn that we have to live life as if it was the last breathing. We have to be next to the people we love as much as we possibly can and let them know how much we love them. That sounds so cliche, but I guess, when you go through something like that, you realise how important it is to value the people you care.
Amiga, I'm devastated with your pain. I feel your body aching with disappointment. I'm praying for your soul and for his too. I hope God brings you peace. God took him away because he was needed elsewhere. Your prince will cure in heaven. You're a rock, you'll past trough this and you'll be happy again. You deserve it! I love you always!!
6 comments:
Oh my God, I have tears in my eyes, and I don't even know her, or his family, or anyone. What a horribly sad story. I wish her and his family lots of strength and a lot of supportive friends and family who help them get trough the worst time. As you say, the one thing we have to learn from this, is to live in peace with those around us, to appreciate what we have, to express our love, to always leave with a grateful heart.
i hate reading this. the pain of losing a loved one is terrible. everything sticks in the mind like an empty black hole. you sometimes have to tell yourself to breathe, and just when you catch your breath, your world sticks again.
I'm so sorry for your friend. I'm sorry for you, the friends and families.
it is such a sad sad story.
you are right, paulinha, we should all appreciate the people we love. but even though we lose someone, the love doesn't go away. the world is ultimately better because we have loved.
i have been thinking about you. sending a long hug to you, Paulinha.
Thanks guys!!
That's very thoughtful!!
I believe time heals everything, and everyday we get a bit better... my biggest concern is with her, who is suffering a lot. But I'm sure God will giver her comfort.
Thanks again!!
Wow, my heart is breaking for her. To have suffered such a great loss. My prayers go out to those effected by this horrible tragedy.
Puts Paula, é Georgia n é?! Fiquei sabendo pelo seu blog... n falo com ela a muitos anos, mas por favor diga que mandei meus pesames.
bj
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